Marriage & Couples Counseling
are you tired of fighting and never getting anywhere?
One of the first things that couples like you tell me is that you need help with your communication. It seems like neither of you really understand each other and you need help figuring things out. That’s what gets most couples into marriage counseling.
Little things have started adding up and now they’re affecting your general happiness. You have basic needs in your relationship that are consistently going unmet.
But then things get fine for a little while and you don’t want to try to have potentially risky conversations for fear of stirring the pot. Neither of you wants to be the one that puts you back in the bad space. It’s a cycle that’s been repeating for a while and now you’re left with the question, “Will this ever be really good again”?
fear not. i can help.
Good couples counseling isn’t about rehashing the past and playing the blame game. It’s about reaching deep; past the reactivity and into the vulnerability to create a deep connection with your partner. That connection is built on feeling seen, feeling heard, and feeling important. It is built on having your needs met, getting “unstuck”, and learning more about how you can be a better partner, too. You’ll get all of that and more when you work with me.
Believe me, I get that this process can be overwhelming and daunting. There’s usually one of you that wants to talk about feelings, and issues, and hurts, and wants. The other one of you tends to be the silent type, opting to retreat within out of self-preservation. Getting those two things to mesh seems almost impossible some days but that’s my specialty — that’s what I’m here to help you accomplish.
Imagine what it will be like to be so in sync. Then reach out to me so, together, we can make all of that happen for you.